Monday, January 5, 2009 ♥
THINGS TO DO AFTER BREAKUPS
some people say that every day love teaches them more than anything they`ve ever learnt in school. i would agree..
especially the part where he broke up with me..
it was July 2008 ..it was cold.. i was just got back from work..
i still remember the moment he ruined my life..
i was left with thousand of questions in my head..wondering what went wrong..
tears accompany me the whole day.. felt so hard to breath..
i left home to take a walk.. hopefully by walking at a lake near my house could
ease my mind..
on my way out later that night.. i stopped by a shop to buy a tissue..
as i waited for a women in front of me done her payment..
the tv's news caught my eyes... it was about an idiot jump from
the upper floor of the mall just because failed in love...
yeahh.. people could kill themselves just because of love..
after that , a whole new world opened up to me..
a world where i felt a wide range of conflicting emotions every single minute..
a world where solace could be found in exercise,liquor,facials,manicures,tv, pedicures n etc .
a world where it was entirely possible to lose 10 kg and then gain 20 kg in another..
but most of all i learnt that i was not alone..
everyone has gone through breakups. it sucks..
at 1st.. its kinda hard to live ur life as usual..
after all, you hv spent everyday for the past eight months sharing waffle and ice cream with ur significant other..you might be lost for what to do on that 1st day when its just you..
so here.. i would like to share to all the girls who had her heart broke a tips about things to do after your break up.. my reference are from my past experience, friends n the book..
"IM FINE" by Mandana Hoveyda...
1. Get up..Go to Work.. CRY...
2. Call ur best friend.. ask her to come over to your house.. n cry in her shoulder..
3. DONT sms him..
4. DONT call him...
5. DONT throw away all his present.. keep them in a box and place them in a place it would not cross your mind to go there..
6. Delete all his sms,email,msg, and CONTACT NUMBER.
7. Ok..so u are ok..(NO YOU ARE NOT) you think you ready to let him know you are over him..( WHICH YOU ARE NOT)..and you could call him and just be friend ( FORGET IT) ..and tell him you are ok..( I SAID FORGET IT!!)
8. Meet new people.. go to a party..or social activities.. make new friends..
9. Shopp till drops!
10. Manicure!
11. Remember.. dont call him! dont sms him! its ok to think about him.. but he doesnt need to know..
12. Write down in a piece of paper..why its the best thing to lose him.. u can write anything bad about him.. maybe he likes to fart in public.. but..but..but..after u write it.. tear it up...
dont ever send it to him...
13.Dont listen to a song which will makes things worse... the only song u need to hear is girl power songs.. i like i will survive gloria gaynor..
14.eat lotsa chocolate..
15.Cry!
16. Last But Not least... Pray.. Pray should be on the top.. Coz Allah knows whats the best for us..Everything happens for a reason.. we think with our head..not with our heart..
GOOD LUCK!
some people say that every day love teaches them more than anything they`ve ever learnt in school. i would agree..
especially the part where he broke up with me..
it was July 2008 ..it was cold.. i was just got back from work..
i still remember the moment he ruined my life..
i was left with thousand of questions in my head..wondering what went wrong..
tears accompany me the whole day.. felt so hard to breath..
i left home to take a walk.. hopefully by walking at a lake near my house could
ease my mind..
on my way out later that night.. i stopped by a shop to buy a tissue..
as i waited for a women in front of me done her payment..
the tv's news caught my eyes... it was about an idiot jump from
the upper floor of the mall just because failed in love...
yeahh.. people could kill themselves just because of love..
after that , a whole new world opened up to me..
a world where i felt a wide range of conflicting emotions every single minute..
a world where solace could be found in exercise,liquor,facials,manicures,tv, pedicures n etc .
a world where it was entirely possible to lose 10 kg and then gain 20 kg in another..
but most of all i learnt that i was not alone..
everyone has gone through breakups. it sucks..
at 1st.. its kinda hard to live ur life as usual..
after all, you hv spent everyday for the past eight months sharing waffle and ice cream with ur significant other..you might be lost for what to do on that 1st day when its just you..
so here.. i would like to share to all the girls who had her heart broke a tips about things to do after your break up.. my reference are from my past experience, friends n the book..
"IM FINE" by Mandana Hoveyda...
1. Get up..Go to Work.. CRY...
2. Call ur best friend.. ask her to come over to your house.. n cry in her shoulder..
3. DONT sms him..
4. DONT call him...
5. DONT throw away all his present.. keep them in a box and place them in a place it would not cross your mind to go there..
6. Delete all his sms,email,msg, and CONTACT NUMBER.
7. Ok..so u are ok..(NO YOU ARE NOT) you think you ready to let him know you are over him..( WHICH YOU ARE NOT)..and you could call him and just be friend ( FORGET IT) ..and tell him you are ok..( I SAID FORGET IT!!)
8. Meet new people.. go to a party..or social activities.. make new friends..
9. Shopp till drops!
10. Manicure!
11. Remember.. dont call him! dont sms him! its ok to think about him.. but he doesnt need to know..
12. Write down in a piece of paper..why its the best thing to lose him.. u can write anything bad about him.. maybe he likes to fart in public.. but..but..but..after u write it.. tear it up...
dont ever send it to him...
13.Dont listen to a song which will makes things worse... the only song u need to hear is girl power songs.. i like i will survive gloria gaynor..
14.eat lotsa chocolate..
15.Cry!
16. Last But Not least... Pray.. Pray should be on the top.. Coz Allah knows whats the best for us..Everything happens for a reason.. we think with our head..not with our heart..
GOOD LUCK!
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Twenty-two years old
I dont care about being like
What i care is winning
A very random & hyper girl who
is a CrazyLover of Animal and poem♥
Tied down to motivational task & was assigned
to be a part time facilitator - LOL.
Music is definitely part of me.
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Girlfriends
is what she adores most.
They are her SuperGirlf.
Poetry
is part of her life.
Shopping sprees
with her girlfriends are time when they
can crap together.
- Lose weight!
- Skin Of The Day
-Electric blue/red cardigan!
- Litle Miss Sunshine Tee
- I Love My Boyf tee! ♥
- More outings with my girls!
- New pair of shoes & boots
- 170cm tall!
- Holidays!
- Black Eyeliner!
My Motivator
My Guidance
My Designer
My Advisor
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My Shawl Shop
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Twenty-two years old
I dont care about being like
What i care is winning
A very random & hyper girl who
is a CrazyLover of Animal and poem♥
Tied down to motivational task & was assigned
to be a part time facilitator - LOL.
Music is definitely part of me.
Add me at Myspace - xoxo_ain@yahoo.com
Add me at Tagged - Same email as above
Add me on Facebook - Nuradiyana1901@yahoo.com
i also have YM - xoxo_ain@yahoo.com
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Girlfriends
is what she adores most.
They are her SuperGirlf.
Poetry
is part of her life.
Shopping sprees
with her girlfriends are time when they
can crap together.
Yearns ♥
♥ i want
- Lose weight!
- Skin Of The Day
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- Litle Miss Sunshine Tee
- I Love My Boyf tee! ♥
- More outings with my girls!
- New pair of shoes & boots
- 170cm tall!
- Holidays!
- Black Eyeliner!
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